Same-jima'i aure a Rasha da kuma kasashen waje

Ba asiri da cewa wannan aure-jima'i - wani ra'ayi da ke faruwa tare da kara a kowace shekara. Don kwanan wata, a wasu kasashe, mutane da gay iya shiga tare a aure, kuma na halal.

Yana amfani da su ji kunyar shaida jama'a cewa mutane sukan so da kuma nuna juyayi ne ba da akasin jima'i. Amma yanzu irin wannan stereotype rushe, ya dade da aka saba, cewa mutane - kasancewa m kuma, a wasu hanya, m. Duk mazaunan duniya ba kama da juna, domin wasu maza ze son wata mace mafi kyau fiye da kowa. Amma sauran mutane fi son maza daga nasu irin. Same-jima'i da aure - dangantaka tsakanin maza, ko mataimakin versa, tsakanin fursunoni mata dokokin. Yana da aure tsakanin mutane na jinsi daya.

Ko da yake wannan-jima'i aure ya fara zama kawai kwanan nan a kasashe daban-daban, amma a cikin abin da ake kira yakin dangantakar mutane kunshi da suka wuce. Alal misali, a Denmark a 1989 muka fara rayuwa tare da maza, da mata da maza. A 1993, } ungiyoyin aure da aka kammala a Norway, a 1995 - a Sweden. Amma kawai bayan shekara ta 2009 tare da gay mutane zai iya shiga cikin kungiyar tarayyar bin doka.

Idan muka magana game da kasar mu, guda-jima'i aure a Rasha ba a hukumance gane kuma ba su bayar da da hukuncinSa. Duk da haka, zamani al'umma ne har yanzu jayayya a kan al'amarin. A shekarar 2003, an yi yunkurin tsakanin guda-jima'i mutane don a halatta su dangantaka, sa'an nan kuka sake tattaunawa kara. A amincewa da gaskiya cewa kungiyar na iya zama ko dai tsakanin wani mutum da wata mace, da kuma tsakanin 'yan luwadi, a shekarar 2005, ya shiga cikin wani aure na wakilai na majalisar dokoki da kuma shugaban edita na wani shahararren gay mujallar. Amma 'yan kwanaki daga baya, a tarayyar kidaya kamar yadda ba daidai ba, da kuma' yan makonni daga baya aka hana ta gundumar kotu kira wannan mataki. A shekarar 2009, ya maimaita yunkurin yin rajistar aurensu da mace, amma sakamakon ma ya tabbatar da m.

A mafi raya ƙasashe a wannan batun suna dauke da yammaci da kuma arewacin Turai. Kuma a wurare da dama guda-jima'i da aure na iya samun wannan fifita ta a matsayin saba gargajiya tsakaninsu. Don kwanan wata, mai yawa muhawara a kan wannan batu, amma babu wanda ya tsira daga gaskiya cewa su yaro ne "al'ada Guy" ko "rauni mace wanda yana bukatar goyon baya daga mutãne." Man - wannan kasancewa wani mutum, ba kamar sauran mutane, ba mu da hakkin ya yanke cewa wannan aure-jima'i - shi ne mummuna. Bayan duk, wanda ya taba je sama tare da cewa mace dole son wani mutum da mataimakin versa, da karfi jima'i aure rauni. Me canza kome - taimaka wa kimiyya, fasaha da kuma sauran yankunan da mutum aiki, amma a can ya zama wani ci gaba a dangantaka tsakanin mutane? Hakika, rigingimu game da wannan aure-jima'i zai faru ci gaba.

A ƙasashe da dama, ƙoƙarin yin rajistar aure tsakanin mutum da jinsi daya ne an bã shi azãba, shi yana iya zama kadan da azãba mai tsanani, ɗaurin rai da rai, har ma da kisa.

Amma ba duk ƙasashe suna hana rai a soyayya gay mutane a wurare da dama 'yan luwadi iya samun cikakken' yancin shiga wata doka jam'iyya. Mene ne yanayi na aure? Kauna, girmamawa da kuma so, saboda wadannan Yanã shiryar da su ne tushen mai tsawo da kuma farin ciki rai. Af, masana kimiyya da dama sun tabbatar da cewa wannan aure-jima'i - yana da mafi kyau kungiya ta kashin ake kalla fallasa zuwa wani saki. A cikin irin wannan iyalai yara, ana haifuwarsu ne (an soma, rungumi dabi'ar ko hatched a surrogate uwa), abin da ya bambanta a hankali, wit, kuma a kusa da daya mataki gaba fiye da yara daga talakawa aure. Saboda haka, Rasha kamata ku auna nauyi duka "ribobi" da "fursunoni" kafin yin rigima yanke shawara.