Me ya sa wasu mutane fada cikin soyayya tare da mafi kusantar dangi?

Don ƙarni, labarun soyayya sa a kafuwar manyan ayyukan al'adu da adabi. Duk da haka, wannan shi ne wuya gaskiya da labaru game da hauka so tsakanin dangi. Incestuous litattafan wuya tilasta ka ka bi aukuwa bleary-sa ido daga kuka. Ã'a, sun tsokane tura zuwa amai da tashin zuciya. A cikin wani hali, shi ne irin wannan dauki faru ga mutane da yawa, a lokacin da 51-shekara Kim West kuma ta 32-shekara da haihuwa dan Ben Ford shared tare da duniya da labarin.

labarin soyayya

Yana duk fara da shekaru goma da suka wuce, a lokacin da matasa Kim haifi ɗa. Duk da haka, iyali dabi'u mace ƙyãma, kuma watsi da yaro a mako bayan haihuwa. Bayan shekaru, ya fara tasawa Ben yi kamar yadda da yawa daga cikin soma yara da kuma - ya yanke shawarar yin lamba tare da nazarin halittu uwa. Sa'an nan wani abu ya faru da ya sa duniya don shudder a kyama. Uwar da kuma dan ba kawai sake saduwa, da kuma Mun halitta a soyayya jam'iyya.

A wata hira da West yarda cewa na farko jima'i rudu game da nasa dan bayyana a ta a lokaci guda cewa Ford kokarin samun online hujja cewa ya ba shi kadai iya fuskanci jiki so ga mahaifiyarsa. Daga baya, sun hadu a hotel, da kuma lokacin da halin kirki da kuma da'a tsarin da aka ruthlessly sharewa barasa, raba wannan gado.

Haka abin ya fara a dangantaka da kasashen yamma ya bayyana a matsayin "mai ban mamaki". Ford ne iya raba ta ra'ayi, saboda, kada ku yi shakka a bar matarsa domin kansa uwa. Bayan bude latsa, ma'auratan ya fita daga tsõro don samun shekaru 15 a kurkuku, kuma ya yi a cikin sahu na jima'i masu laifi.

m tushen haddasawa

Duk da haka, Kim da Ben, kwazo da zamantakewa shurum iya isa ga wasu asasshe, a kalla a kan wani juyin matakin. Bar a lokacin da ginshiƙai na perplexity da takaici da kokarin duba da zurfi cikin matsalar. Bayan duk, wani jima'i sabawa da su m tushen haddasawa.

Za ka iya wuya a yi mamaki cewa namiji maza ne mafi kusantar su ba, baicin mãtan aure, kamar uwayensu, kazalika da mata zabi maza, tunatarwata su na da nasu kakanninsu. Wannan sabon abu a cikin tunani kira m imprinting. Don substantiate ya kimiyya kasa Icelandic masana kimiyya. Bayan jawabin da 2008 nazari, sun gano cewa, m dangi da damar don samar da mafi yawan yara masu lafiya fiye da saba biyu. A halin yanzu, akwai har yanzu manufar "korau imprinting," ko in ba haka ba qaddamar da Westermark. A wannan yanayin da mutum ya musanta wani jima'i janye zuwa mutane tare da wanda ya rayu a matsayin yaro, ciki har da iyaye, 'yan'uwa.

Saboda haka, watakila, a hade da kyau imprinting da rashin korau version sa m hali Ben Ford?

m sakamakon

Psychologist Judith Venben Smith ya bayar da hujjar cewa mutanen da suka ba da lafiya iyali dangantaka a cikin shimfiɗar jariri, kokarin da ya fi kyau ka raba da jiki da kuma wani tunanin ta'aziyya na jima'i so. Duk da haka, da suka iya yi in ba haka ba. The abu na soyayya, a wannan yanayin, ya zama zumunta. Wannan ba wani mataimakin kuma ba da wata cũta, bisa ga Judith, wannan shi ne hanyar da mutum amsa ga ji cewa tashi a lokacin da taro tare da masõyansa, daga wanda ya aka raba da kuma cewa ya fantasized.

Duk da haka, hannu a cikin irin wannan dangantaka bisa karfi tunanin "misfire" na iya zama ninki biyu yankunan. A jama'a incestuous soyayya ya kasance da kuma zai zama wani taboo topic, da kuma mutane da suka tafi da lalatar, da hadarin da ake ware daga jama'a. Bugu da kari, za su har abada rasa damar haifar da lafiya iyali dangantaka.