Frigid matar: da yadda za a magance wannan matsalar?

Daga cikin dukan dalilan cewa fada ma'aurata ko da bayan shekaru masu yawa na aure, jima'i rashin biyan bukata (da maza da mata) shi ne shugaba. Abin da ra'ayi ko ya na kowa, amma a 90% na lokuta ba su zargi "a kausasa namiji" da kuma frigid matarsa.

Shi ne na musamman mace cutar da kuma ba da damar su ji dadin biyu maza "tsafi" na m rai, da cewa yana sa ba kawai da yawa jayayya, amma m tafiye-tafiye "a gefe".

Me kuke nufi "a frigid mace"?

Frigidity - wannan mace, a mafi yawan lokuta, a psychosomatic (m ko hasashen al'amurran kawo jiki da kuma physiological malfunctions a jiki) cuta, a cikin abin da mace ba iya ji dadin kawance tare da wani mutumin da a wasu lokuta - shi ba ji babu albarkacin so don ƙirƙirar shi .

An sau da yawa bayyana a gaskiyar cewa a mace ne kada su koyar da ta dace jin dãɗin bayan wani jima'i, da fuskantar mummunan motsin zuciyarmu, wanda sai ya tilasta ta ta jin kunya daga kawance, zuwa sama tare da dalilai daban-daban domin wannan. Ba wai kawai cewa, amma a wani matsayi, da ta fara zuwa imani da su sosai cewa sun riga ze zama real. Wannan ya zama wani cikas da magani daga m cututtuka.

Na frigid! Me ya sa?

Sanadin frigidity kagaggun m: da rashin yanayi kafin jima'i, matalauta ji na jima'i mace, gina a kan stereotypes, unwillingness inganta mata jima'i, da kuma ko da banal korau farko jima'i kwarewa. Bad jima'i abokin iya taka rawa a cikin zargin frigidity, amma sau da yawa wannan zauna a kan matakin labari. A kusan kowace harka, frigid matarsa - ba sakamakon "bad" mijinta, kuma aure na saukaka.

A gaskiya frigidity kawai na faruwa a lokacin da samuwar m marurai na mace haihuwa tsarin, ko a yanayin saukan malformation na mace jiki. A duk sauran magana game da ƙarya frigidity.

Idan mace ta ta gano frigidity, shi ya zama m tafiya zuwa mafi kusa asibitin ga cikakken jarrabawa na jiki, sa'an nan - bukata magani a sexologist da psychotherapist. Af, ta da abokin tarayya kuma shawarar m ziyara a waccan mujalla da muka masana.

Frigid matar: a lokacin da matsalar ba matsala

Kamar yadda aka ambata a baya - frigidity iya zama duka almara, da kuma rashin so je gado ga abokin karkashin inuwar na frigidity zai nufi mai banal unwillingness barci tare da shi, da kuma ba duka mutane. Idan "frigid" matarsa a lokacin da mijinta kulla wani sosai da wuya gani a gida da kuma o ƙarin tabbatar da "kashe lokaci tare da abokaina," shi ne wani talakawa al'amari na zina. Kuma dukan "soyayya" a kan abin da ta yi aure, ta zo saukar zuwa kudi.

Abin da mutum, idan ya na da wani frigid matarka?

Essential sharudda na rike da iyali a cikin wannan hali ya zama da cikakken goyon bayan maza da juna. Husband a wani hali, kada ku jefa wani tantrum, ko zargi da mate. Matsalar ne gaba daya warware, ko da wani dogon da tedious far. Kawai a cikin wannan harka ta biyu za su sami ba kawai "jiki" farin ciki, amma kuma cikin dogon jiran jituwa a cikin dangantaka.