Psychologist Galina Belozub: Sanadin mace Loneliness

Galina Belozub matsayin psychologist sau da yawa na'am da buƙatun daga abokan ciniki: "Ina da haka shekaru masu yawa, kuma ba zan iya samun aure, suna da wani iyali." Yana alama duk abin da ta na da - da kuma kyakkyawa, da tunani, da kuma sana'a. Kuma mahaifiyata waccan magana, kuma abokai / idon sani pestered tambaya, "To, aure ba a samu?" Dalilai da shafi da cewa da zamani lady daga shekara talatin da ba a aure, na iya zama daban-daban, bisa ga Galina Belozub. Duk da haka, idan muka takaice duk wadannan dalilai, za mu iya bambanta uku main. Farko - wannan mummunan hali ga mutane. Akwai irin wannan arziki a cikin yara, da kuma warware wadannan matsaloli mafi tare da wani psychologist. Dalili na biyu - low kai girma da kuma rashin son kai. Mace da kai girma bai yi imani da cewa, yana yiwuwa ya fada cikin soyayya, cewa shi ne ya cancanci hankali. Kuma, don kauce wa da zafi na kin amincewa, ta ki yarda da su domin sadarwa da maza. Dalili na uku - wannan ya karu matakin na siffantawa. Kubuta daga gaskiya a cikin mafarki. Kamar yadda kowane ilimin aiki da wadannan al'amurra a su yi Galina Belozub.

Littattafai da aka rubuta ta hanyar ta, haddasa wata fadi da ban sha'awa a cikin jama'a. Mafi shahara daga cikin waɗannan ne "rikicin arba'in. Tips zamani mace." Har ila yau a shekarar 2007 ta wallafa wani littafin, "Aure tun daga fitowar alfijir zuwa magariba", sadaukar da topic na da aure da kuma aure, da yadda za a sadu da sauran rabin. Ta littafi, "Mun zabi, zabi mu" ne mafi game da topic na abokin selection matsala.

Raunin da shafi sirrin na

Duk wani mummunan wani tunanin taron, wanda ya kasance tare da mutum a matsayin yaro, da ciwon mai girma tasiri a kan rayuwa a nan gaba. A sakamakon haka, akwai sakamakon m rauni: low kai girma, daban-daban tsoro, da rashin tabbas, kadaici. Kuma muddin mutum bai warkar da traumatized yara to shi kuma zai jawo hankalin mutane da kuma yanayi da cewa tsananta shi. Taken warkaswa wani tunanin raunuka ne sosai m kuma na gaggawa. Canada psychologist Liz Burbo ba wani taƙamammen rarrabuwa na raunin da su haddasawa:

• rauni jẽfaffe.
• watsi da rauni.
• rauni ƙasƙanci.
• Devotional rauni.
• zalunci rauni.

Receptions abokan ciniki ta wata hanya baya ga yara da kuma abubuwan da suka faru da cewa ci gaba da shafi su. Tare da wadannan raunin da bukatar yin aiki tare da wani gwani, ya ce Galina Belozub. Biography na psychologist ya ce shi ne da yawa daga kwafi a rare mujallu, kamar "My Family" mujallar.

Yadda za a rage tasirin raunin sirrin?

Mu tuna da motsin zuciyarmu da kuma ji cewa suna dandana, sai ku riƙe su furta wasu kalmomi: "Na yarda, na yarda ...." Galina Belozubov yi imanin cewa, za mu haka da wuya mai da kansu, to zukatansu cewa wadannan rare lokacin na jikin mu, mu ina kawai alama ce ta nuna godiya ta saki da traumatic halin da ake ciki. Wajibi ne a daukarsu da rauni, ya yi ĩmãni psychologist Galina Belozub. A iyali, ba shakka, shi ne inda duk da matsalolin da ake haifa.

Association of

Association - dangantaka, da na hankalin mutum tsari a lokacin da 2 ko wani tunanin Jihar Concepts da alaka da juna, suna a cikin karu. Alal misali, soyayya da kuma wahala. Ga wasu, wadannan Concepts ne m, a ma'anar. Me ya sa? Saboda kusa (ko fina-finan), daya yakan kawai fama cikin soyayya. Ko ga wani "iyali" hade da kalmar "farin ciki", kuma ga wani - tare da kalmomin da "baƙin ciki da jin zafi". Wadannan kungiyoyin ma hana samuwar lafiya dangantaka tare da akasin jima'i da kuma gina wani cikakken fledged iyali daga baya a rayuwa.

biyayya

A mafi yawan iko tribal biyayya a lokacin da asallanta, mu biyayya ke da kakanninmu. Lokacin da biyayya, misali, kakanninmu zuwa ga shugaban ko kabila na ceton rayuka. Kai ne masu biyayya ga your inna. Inna kadai, ta ya rayu duk rayuwarsa ba tare da mijinta, ta ne m. Ba ka yarda da kanka a yi farin ciki a Solidarity tare da mahaifiyata! Ta yaya?! I?! Zan yi iyali!? Inna ba zai tsira! Ko a Solidarity tare da danta mamma ba aure a karo na biyu. Wannan shi ne energetically mace riga aure: ɗansa, yaro, ga uwa, ga baba! Shin biyayya ga sana'a, a lokacin da wani mutum ya sarrafa kansa ga aikin, kamar wani mataki. A wannan yanayin, biyayya ga hanyarSa, to, a fili, kuma ya taimaka wa tsira da kakanninmu, ta subconsciously zaune a cikin zamani tsara. Shin biyayya ga yanayi - duk guda girlfriends, kuma ba mu kasance duk rayuwarsa a can, kamar yadda zan bashe su? Yadda "tsabta" Aminci? Akwai wasu dabaru, a yi da cewa amfani da wani psychologist a kan sirri shawara. Suna dogara ne a kan yarda da matukar tasiri. Ta ma ya mai karfi Galina Belozub aure for kan ashirin da shekaru, ya tashe yara biyu. iyalansu sau da yawa fuskanci ta kawo aiki tãre da waɗanda suka bukatar ta da shawara da kuma taimako.